“Harvey Milk always said that this was how the revolution would happen: one lonely kid at a time.”
from Love on the March, New Yorker, 11/12/12 by Alex Ross
This show is about the courage of teenagers who come out at a time in life when it is hardest to be different. So many of the legal and social changes in this country that support LGBTQ civil rights are happening because one by one, year after year, thousands of young people dare to come out to their family and friends. Little by little, they open minds and hearts.
Follow the links below to more audio, information and resources to help LGBTQ teens, families, schools and communities.
Safe Space Radio Presents
Out-Takes: The Unheard Stories of LGBTQ Teens
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Leave A Comment- on Out-Takes: The Unheard Stories of LBGTQ TeensHi Clarence, sorry to be so long in responding. Your family members may not feel safe enough to bring it...
- on Out-Takes: The Unheard Stories of LBGTQ TeensI have family members that are gay and the conversation never comes up and I often wonder when, how, why...
- on Out-Takes: The Unheard Stories of LBGTQ TeensI am the Mother of a wonderful intellegent handsome son,..who happens to be Gay. My son came out to me...
- on Out-Takes: The Unheard Stories of LBGTQ TeensSo proud to know Anne Hallward. This program was terrific!
- on Out-Takes: The Unheard Stories of LBGTQ TeensWhat a wonderful, educational program for all. i was especially proud to hear Sianna, since we are part of the...
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Family
Lesbian, gay, and bisexual young adults who reported higher levels of family rejection during adolescence were 8.4 times more likely to report having attempted suicide, and 5.9 times more likely to report high levels of depression. Pediatrics, January 2009, VOLUME 123 / ISSUE 1 [MORE]
School
The vast majority of LGBTQ kids are victimized at their school. Bullying ranges from negative comments from both peers and teachers, to actual physical assault. Find out more about what you can do in your school to protect LGBTQ teens and make the school safer for everyone. [MORE]
Solutions
The great news is that we know what makes a difference in saving LGBT kid’s lives. The next step is to learn about these strategies, find allies and work together to make these changes. [MORE]
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Resources:
Audio:
An interview with Inaugural poet, Richard Blanco:
Part II of the interview with Richard Blanco:
Further Reading:
- “How Homophobia Hurts Everyone: A Theoretical Foundation”
- We Are the Youth: Sharing the Stories of LGBT Youth in the United States
- Climate Survey: The Experiences of Lesbian, Gay, and Transgender Youth in Our Nation’s Schools
- Schools in Transition: A Guide for Supporting Transgender Students in K-12 Schools
- “Stop Bullying Now”
- Crisis: 40 Stories Revealing the Personal, Social and Religious Pain and
Trauma of Growing Up Gay In America
Organizations:
- Gay, Lesbian & Straight Education Network
- Trans Youth Equality Foundation
- The Trevor Project
- Equality Federation
Maine Organizations
Discussion questions for Teens:
- What was it like for you to hear these stories? What did you resonate with? What could you not relate to?
- Were there important parts of your experience that got left out? What are they?
- Who are the most trustworthy, and accepting people in your life? Make a list. Can you go to them when things are difficult? Do you? If not, why not, and is this something you can talk to them about?
Sue says
Can’t wait for the show to air.
Sue Campbell says
This is an amazing resource! Thank you for all your hard work and dedication to the LGBTQ youth and families!
Georgia says
Can’t wait to hear these stories. What a great radio piece!
Susanne MacArthur says
These heart-felt personal experiences are so important to hear and to share with the world. I am deeply inspired by these young people and their stories. They give me real hope!
Kay Wilkins says
“Out-Takes” covers such an important series of topics. I am looking forward to hearing it. I hope everyone will listen with open hearts and minds.
Jeanne says
Such important work! Cannot wait to hear this program!
Cory says
As a legally married lesbian and aunt to a transgender nephew, I thank you for this radio program. You covered so many issues, and I applaud the courage of your guests. I might add that employment, which is such an important aspect of self confidence, is such a challenge for transgender youth. Labeling your business LGBT friendly maybe advantageous in the media, but actively employing or offering internships/apprenticeships could truly change a life. Also just showing up, listening, and giving your time. Again many thanks!
Anne Hallward says
Hi Cory, thanks for saying that. Yes, hiring LGBTQ teens is a great way for businesses to make a difference! Anne
Matt Pines says
What a wonderful program. Your closing comments, about the courage it takes to be vulnerable and authentic, sum up our experiences with teenagers – gay, straight, transgender at our summer camp. Adolescence is brutal, more so for LGBTQ teens, and all teens need caring adults in their lives not to tell them who they are, but to provide them a safe place for them to find out for themselves.
Susan says
Thank you so much for this heartfelt, helpful, and thoughtfully presented piece. Thanks so much to the brave young people and families who shared their stories. You’re doing so much to help LGBTQ teens and their families. May many new GSTAs sprout up as a result of your show. Bravo!
Anne Hallward says
Yes, if you are a teacher, and heard this program, check out the resources for teachers in the “schools” section of this page. We have a lot of resources to help you set up a GSTA!
Susanne MacArthur says
Very powerful stories from LGBTQ youth. What all of us can do to help is quite simple: listen, believe, and care!
Sarah says
Thank you for this wonderful program! I love that you ended with specific recommendations for schools and for individuals to reduce the risk of self-harm.
S. F. says
This is the show I needed to hear when I was a teenager. I’m so glad that teens and the people who love them have access to this great resource. I’ve recommended your show to many friends, including teachers and social workers who work with kids. Thank you so much for your work.
Dede Bennell says
Thank you for this show. I am so grateful as an educator in a local high school and a parent of a gay son. I have shared this show.
Keep up the great work. It really is about discrimination, not about identity or sexual orientation. Equal rights for all!
Ellie Mercer says
Anne,
I just finished listening to your LGBT program. It is riveting and so magnificently put together. Thank you SO much. That should win an award. You have just helped so many people.
Jean Jones says
What a wonderful, educational program for all. i was especially proud to hear Sianna, since we are part of the same singing group!
Robert Fox says
So proud to know Anne Hallward. This program was terrific!
Proud Mom says
I am the Mother of a wonderful intellegent handsome son,..who happens to be Gay. My son came out to me in his sophomore year. I was so relieved. I Knew He was struggling with his identity and had to gain the confidence to come out to me on his own…my response was to hug him…tell him I was proud of him, and tell him I had his back…
Clarence Rudy Brown says
I have family members that are gay and the conversation never comes up and I often wonder when, how, why the change or transformation took place in their minds.
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Anne Hallward says
Hi Clarence, sorry to be so long in responding. Your family members may not feel safe enough to bring it up. In general it is understood that people who are gay are born that way. If you are going to approach to have a conversation, I would start with that assumption. If you approach without agenda, and are genuinely connecting so that you understand more, it may lead to a wonderful connection! good luck. Anne