Frank is the father of two boys, and he is also a gay man. In this interview, Frank talks about always wanting children and how he and his husband have taken steps to protect their children from homophobia and find welcoming communities. Frank also describes his experience of finding a surrogate to conceive and bear the child, and how their family has stayed connected to their surrogate. Frank explores assumptions people make about his ability to nurture and take care of his children, and the intrusive offers of help he sometimes receives in public settings.